My pregnancy journey so far: Reflecting on the Highs and the Lows

Pregnancy is such an amazing journey, one which is filled with so many emotions, and experiences. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant and find myself reflecting on the last several months- there’s been many a high but it’s not all smooth sailing and there’s been some lows also.

Amidst the joy and anticipation, it's important to acknowledge that pregnancy is not always a smooth journey. There have been moments of doubt, discomfort, and fear. From navigating the physical challenges of pregnancy to grappling with the emotional whirlwind that often accompanies it, it is all helping me prepare for what is yet to come.

As I prepare to welcome my third child into the world, I wanted to share my highs and lows with other women who are pregnant, have been recently, or maybe you're TTC- or hey maybe you just enjoy reading this blog (or you might be my sister Emma aka my number one fan).

My pregnancy Highs

The Positive pregnancy Test

My husband and I tried for a baby for quite some time so I’ll never forget the feeling of seeing that positive pregnancy test. The line was faint. I was in disbelief. A whirlwind of emotion flooded my body.

The day prior I had gotten a negative test and cried and felt such a heavy sense of hopelessness like there would never be a light at the end of the tunnel, but flashforward less than 24 hours later and there was a happy ending- the beginning of an incredible journey.

Sharing our news with everyone

All my closest friends and family who we told first knew I longed for another baby and were almost as excited as us when we shared the news with them. Their reactions were such special moments.

Then there’s the thrill you get from sharing the news online, as well wishes pour in you get such a buzz!

Telling our kids was unreal, they were beyond excited. It instantly became one of my all time favourite core memories.

Ultrasound Appointments

Seeing your baby for the first time is incredible, before that first ultrasound it doesn’t even feel real. And no matter how many scans you have – its something you can never tire of seeing and the novelty can never wear out.

The lows

Morning Sickness and Fatigue

Morning sickness is tough, and I have another blog that I need to post that’s all set to go about what I tried to ease my morning sickness, I’ll have to post it soon!

So, despite the highs, the journey hasn’t been without its challenges. Morning sickness hit me hard during the first trimester, making everyday tasks feel daunting. The constant nausea and overwhelming fatigue were tough to manage, especially with trying to look after my two other kids and juggle my million other responsibilities.

When you’re in the trenches with morning sickness it feels like it will never end but just remember this too shall pass.

Body Changes and Discomfort

I have already discussed this low in a couple of my other blog but yeah as my body continues to change. I’ve experienced my fair share of discomforts also. From back pain to swollen feet, the physical toll of pregnancy is undeniable. Finding comfortable positions to sleep in has been a nightly struggle, and simple tasks like bending down have become more challenging.

My sister is also pregnant just now and we are always laughing at our forever complaints as they’re never ending- it’s nice I have someone who can listen to all the complaints and really relate though.

Emotional Rollercoaster

Pregnancy hormones have taken me on an emotional rollercoaster. Some days I feel on top of the world, while others I’m overwhelmed and don’t even get me started on the mood swings.

The other night I asked my husband at 10pm if he would go to Tesco for some ice for me (that’s my craving). And bless his soul he did. I was happy and feeling loved, until he said he wanted to go to bed twenty minutes later. I then went in a sulk and told him he didn’t love me anymore- make it make sense.

Some days it seems everything is too much and it’s hard not to get bogged down in negativity when you’re exhausted from growing a baby. Go easy on yourself or do what I do and take a nap!

Balancing Life and Pregnancy

Balancing the demands of daily life with pregnancy has been one of the biggest challenges. Between work, taking care of my other children, and trying to find time for self-care, it often feels like there aren’t enough hours in the day.

The constant juggling act between meeting the needs of a growing family, fulfilling work responsibilities, and taking care of yourself can lead to feelings of exhaustion and stress. It requires planning, prioritisation, and sometimes seeking support from partners, family, or friends to navigate through this challenging period- remember it’s ok to admit you’re struggling and need some help.

Conclusion

As I sit here, reflecting on my pregnancy journey, I am filled with a mix of emotions. The highs have been truly magical, while the lows have taught me resilience and strength.

I am incredibly excited and a bit anxious about the upcoming birth, and I know that every moment so far – both good and challenging – has been a part of preparing me for this new chapter.

When you’re experiencing the lows of pregnancy sometimes you feel so guilty for feeling any negative type of way, because you know there are women out there that would sell a vital organ to be experiencing what you are right now. But just remember that you are entitled to feel any type of way and its completely ok not to enjoy your pregnancy.

To all the expectant mothers out there, remember that it's okay to have both good and challenging days. Embrace your journey and know that you are not alone.